Introduction of her entry into the social network ‘twitter’ happened in the early stage of our friendship, though it is true that our acquiesce is not perpetually antique, but with circulation of time, I felt we are success in developing our relation at the highest level, and her present in the twitter is great triumph for myself because I was the one who familiar her with this network, till she asked me the peculiar question.
In a day, when the sun light dispelled the darkness to show us the beauty of world, and when the bell ring deafened the calmness of sleeping into an awaken stare. She asked me with an innocent smile. “What is the big deal with this twitter?” Well,,, to tell you the truth, I was uncertain about a certain answer because such curiosity never occur in my mind as I accept them for grant, like clothing, eating, and specially breathing. Inside my heart, I personalized a kind of nervous feeling because I was not ready with a satisfactory answer, than deliberately I told her “It’s a social network which means you can write everything that you felt about anything in the world and can share it with other person.” The acceleration of my breath slower, but not for long, she asked me again “than what?” Ummm….[ I assume she is determined to sweat me to liquid! Kun Chok Sum, hold her!] I was speechless for few second, than my brain worked. I told her “Haven’t you notice who and who of great people are subscriber in this network” I cleared my throat and fingered the names of famous people “Obama, Shah Rukh Khan, Sushemita sen etc” I was hoping her to indicate any sign of agreement but she keeps on showing the innocent smile, which I was not sure to understand, whether an agreement or a disagreement. I really want to know her opinion but I couldn’t collect enough nerves to ask her as I was not ready to confront another difficult question which I am sure she already constructed in her mind, because she is a bright student, for God’s sake! So I deliberately change the topic and lead her to another conversation.
Inability of understanding the condition of other people’s mind is the deepest ignorance almost, we call human beings experience, and I am not an exceptional. Hence, even I was not sure about her perspective on my reply, inside my heart, I was not happy with my response as it wasn’t genuine, a comprehensive and pure correspondent. Though I can bet my head that social network benefit us in many ways. I mean I have the enough quantity of assurance to declared that the social networks like Twitter, Hi5, Facebook and Space can be great help to us if the utility them in appropriate manner. But I was not able to give her a satisfactory answer because I never portrait the importance of such curiosity. May be she doesn’t know about it but she teach me a good lesson in that incident. She taught me that we have to had the information of things that we are doing. From that day I try to find out the reason for everything that I am doing and it is great help to be frank, because I realized it is the initiative step to understand our self, a way which is very near to us but far away from us.
I know she will read this confession because she does have my blog id. But it is fine with me as I want her to know that it is truth and she has the ability to teach other person a ‘lesson’!!!
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