Today I like [better say have to!] to write a different composition under same name which has been ascend from last four stages, in fact it is out of anticipation that I am craving my words on this because I felt difficult to say NO whenever someone requested, specially the dear ones like K.K. In another treatise of my life, I think it is important to give your best shot to fulfill other’s request as this is how we human beings are differ from other living beings and this is how we happily get reciprocation when we are in needed. Consequently after much resistant, I agreed to write on the topic that is chosen by her which is also in a way reciprocity for the task I gave her in the form of imposition. And the topic she gave me is something like ‘ your other friends’, well, let’s see how much I can pen down upon it, you might wondering why I am saying ‘ how much I can pen down upon it’, but truth is there are not that much I can write about it. Anyway here we go.
For your information K.K, I am a man of few friends, I might be merry in a way, or I might be frank in a way, or I should say I may call others friends, but when it really counts, I am a very discriminatory person to choose friends. I accept my friends as my friends because they matched the description I have about friend. Now wait a minute, you don’t have to panic or exclaim, and when I say the ‘description’ I mean the meaning of friend according to my mind. In life we met lots of people who show us lots of way and who intentionally or unintentionally teach us lots of lessons which became consultative mirror when we have to take decision on our own. Similarly in this short journey of my life [I am not dead now, so I may tell you the other story after I live them, wait!] I met quite a few bunch of people who hypocritically act as my friend, they drink with me, they went on excursion with me, they laugh with me but they never shows up when I am crying, when I am in deep shit, they just walk away from me like they never know me, like they never saw me before. And at this very moment I engraved the meaning of friend THE ONE WHO HAS KIND HEART WITH UNCONTITIONAL MIND.
I will tell you one thing K.K, you might find it funny. If I survey over the list of my friends [which is quite short] I find quite a lots of girl’s name. It is not that I am a womanizer or something, but I find the girl more affable than boys. Actually it is the prime reason why I don’t believe the saying of friendship is not cup of tea between two different genders. Though it is true every love relation starts with friendship but it is not true every friendship ends in love relation. Anyway when I was in teenage I have four good friends with whom I spent eight years of my childhood, we eat together, we school together, we picnic together and even we pee together. [CAUTION! They are all boys!] That moments are the peak of my life till now which is exposing itself more clearly and extensively with the increase of my age. If you ask me, I miss them lot! Than after my dramatic escape to another country, with another atmosphere and living people, I found a friend in the form of teacher who is still very much in touch with me who not only guides me but helps me in every way. There is another teacher of mine [also friend because we have lots of ‘affectionate’ fights hehe!] who is now residing in the Southern side of India, he accept me as his brother. Than I have two colleagues with whom I spent almost ten years together in one location [though we are scatter now.] without any boundary of yours and mines. I also have one girl friend [not girlfriend!] who shares everything with me and who knows almost everything about me, she even proposed to me, not to become my girlfriend! but to become my sister, I accepted and now we are known as brother and sister. There is another girl who helps me lot, though I have to confess I have not really accept her as my friend, but she helps me in different ways and I am debt to her kindness.
Eventually I made another shipment of my location and reached this place. If you ask me how many friends I have in this dormitory, I have two, actually three but I kind of delete his name from my list recently because I found he is not matched with the meaning of friend to my perspective. Among the above two friends, one is girl, with whom I have been friend for almost four years. Our confrontation is quite tragedy [why? Tell you later,,,] we carry on our relation with lots of hindrances and accusation but happy to say we are still friends. Then I met this girl, about whom I found something unusual. At the very first sight of that girl, I convince myself that she is a good girl with kind heart and unconditional mind. We talk, we talk and we talk then became friends. Similar to her proclamation, it takes quite a longtime for another person to become my friend but we became friend in short period, almost in three months. She is always declaring that I will regret of included her into my friend list because of her invisible black deeds [though I have not notice even once till now and never heard of] which she predicted to be seen by me. No matter what, I have one thing to say, despite of certainty of continuation of our relation, after being in this university, it is one of best and most beautiful gift I got. Thank you. Thank you K.K.
